15 Relationship Tips and Advises To Give Your Younger-Self

 

1. Lust and love are not one and the same, do not confuse yourself.

2. If someone lies about small things, they will lie about big things and make your effort worthless.

3. Look at how a person treats the opposite sex when he or she has no interest in dating them. That is where his true character shows. (e.g. If a man is trying to pick you up, of course he will be nice to you)

4. Anything you chase runs away. The more you chase, the faster they run, relax and what is surely yours will come back to you when the time is due.

5. Some men will promise you anything and everything you want to hear in order to get laid. Always be vigilant like the shepherd and learn to read between the lines.

6. Most women think clearly before sex, most men do after so be sure who you give yourself to.

7. Evaluate and judge people by their repeated/constant actions, not by their words. It might be full of deceits.

8. The numbers game doesn’t work. We attract & repel people based on who we are. If you don’t like the kind of men you are repeatedly attracting, take a good honest look at yourself.

9. Falling head over heels on a first date is infatuation, not real love.

10. Instant relationships will fizzle out quickly because they are built on superficial declarations of love. Instant relationships, like instant food and get rich quick schemes, suck big time! They are not real.

11. You can’t talk a man into commitment, do not waste your time when you notice a man isn’t into you.

12. Sometimes a good guy is taking his time to really get to know you, don’t assume he is not interested. Recognize that you are drawn to the drama and excitement of the instant relationship, which is not real love so you may be dismissing good guys.

13. There are high quality men of substance out there they are not magical unicorns! They really do exist, but you have to become a high quality, secure woman of substance to attract one. No, you don’t have to look like a supermodel but you do need good grooming & a positive attitude.

14. Thinking all men are jerks will repel the good ones, don’t assume because assumptions may ruin reality.

15. Insecure women attract insecure men by jumping into an instant relationship making grand promises when they barely know each other.

Stay Safe.